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The Gift of Nature

March 3, 2017 6 Comments

“There is no description, no image in any book capable of replacing the sight of real trees, and all the life to be found around them in a real forest.” Maria Montessori

I am happiest outside. Whether it’s going for a run, sitting on our patio with a glass of wine and a good book, or, perhaps my favorite, hiking in a national park, I would pretty much always rather be outside.

In addition to loving being out in nature, I believe strongly that it’s important for children. Nothing sparks curiosity more than hearing the music of the birds in the morning or noticing a rustling in the bushes and standing completely still to see if you can discover the mystery behind it.

When teaching in the classroom, I saw fist hand the magic of giving children the gift of time outside. We had an outdoor classroom where children could bring their work. It was beautiful to see the concentration that happened when allowing them to do their work in the fresh air, rather than just catching occasional glimpses out the window. For some children in particular, it made a remarkable difference.

Incorporating outside time into our routine with James has been easy. A normal Saturday for us before he was born would often include hiking on Austin’s Greenbelt and then eating at Tacodeli at the picnic tables outside. This is still what we do, just with an extra passenger in tow!

We go for walks every day. Sometimes these are on a trail somewhere, but often just around our neighborhood. I would like to get a membership to the nearby Ladybird Johnson Wildflower Center soon and take some of our walks there.

We often spend some of his playtime on the back patio. It’s so easy to bring a blanket out there and get some sunshine. Sometimes we take playtime to a park too, or this week to Barton Springs, for some variety.

When playing inside, we’re almost always in front of either his mirror or a window, sometimes with the window open to feel the breeze and hear the outside sounds (which are sometimes just traffic noises….)

Bringing nature inside is something I really want to start doing more. I am the WORST with plants. I do not have a good track record with them. I really want to have more plants in our house though. I need to research some really easy ones instead of just wandering blindly around a plant nursery and picking something pretty. Any ideas?

While we spend a lot of time outside already, I know there is so much more we could do. Some things I would love to start including:

Nature Books: James has a book about National Parks and one about bugs, but I think those are really the only ones he has about nature. I plan to go to the library soon and see if I can find some other good ones. I also might make him one on Shutterfly using photos we’ve taken (my husband is a great photographer!)
Nature Photographs: James has nature photographs up in his room, but I’d love to print some more and laminate them so that I could prop them up for him to look at and switch out the images.
Outdoor Environment: While we often bring a blanket outside and play, I do not have any sort of real outdoor environment set up for him yet. I’d like to get a cabinet to hold outdoor play items like bubbles. I would also like to get some sort of shade structure and a water table or small pool for the spring and summer.
Nature Box: I would love to have a box or basket of items from nature for James to look at, but I’m not quite sure how to go about this given his strong desire to put everything in his mouth right now. I’m thinking of looking for bigger things like large sea shells or fossils that aren’t a choking hazard.
Garden: I’m hesitant to even include this given my aforementioned history of killing plants, but I know gardening is such a rich experience for children. I’m thinking of starting with just a small vegetable garden and seeing if I can keep them alive. Perhaps I will beg my mom to come help me….

I would love more ideas!

What is your favorite way to get outside?

If you have children, how do you expose them to nature?

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James at Five Months

March 1, 2017 4 Comments

The last month has flown by! Time in general seems to have acquired entirely new properties since our little guy was born, but this month in particular was FAST. I wanted to document this very sweet time in our lives and share what’s new.

I have to say, this is my very favorite stage of development so far (yes, I think this at almost every stage…). James is so engaged and interactive, but is not really mobile yet, which I know will bring new challenges. He is such a happy little guy and is changing all of the time.

Gross Motor

James is determined. He started rolling from tummy to back at three months and back to tummy at four months, but he really mastered rolling this month. He also started desperately trying to crawl, but so far this mostly results in scooting backward or slowly rotating in a circle.

Funny story – half way through the month, he seemed to forget how to roll over! I think once he mastered it, he didn’t care as much about practicing anymore and was likely focused on learning something new. After constant rolling back and forth, he started trying to roll over, than flopping back down and giving up. Has this happened to anyone else?

Once I realized this, I started putting toys / interesting objects diagonally above him so he could see them, but would need to roll onto his tummy to get a better look / grab them. Within a day and a half or so of doing this, he was back to rolling regularly. (I jokingly referred to this as rolling boot camp.) Not being able to roll over was seriously impacting his naps, so I was happy when he was at it again!

James has also been practicing sitting and baring weight on his legs. He can sometimes sit for a couple of minutes, with his hands on the floor for balance. This seems to surprise him more than anything.

He also loves being held upright to practice standing. He often collapses after a few seconds, but the last week or so he has started bouncing while doing this with a HUGE grin on his face.

Fine Motor

Last month was all about clasping his hands together and this month has been all about reaching for objects and bringing them to his mouth. I so clearly remember when he couldn’t get his hand to his mouth at all as a newborn (and so desperately wanted to), and it is amazing to see him now, using his hands so deftly.

Sleep

James has made great strides with sleep this month and I must say, it’s made a huge difference in our family’s happiness!

He is not yet sleeping through the night regularly (he usually wakes up once in the middle of the night and once in the early morning), but I honestly don’t really care about that. He goes back to sleep quickly and on his own after I feed him, so it’s just a 15-20 minute process.

The change this month, however, has been falling asleep independently. This is something we’ve really been working on since he was three months or so, but saw significant progress in this month. He’s been able to fall asleep on his own after night wakings for months, but just recently started doing so for most naps and at bedtime. He used to cry and cry and need significant comforting, but I now just sing him one song and put him in his bed and he usually falls asleep. I sometimes have to go back in to sing him another song and he sometimes needs more help with his late afternoon nap, but the days of lying next to him and rubbing his back or tummy while he cried seem to be mostly over (at least for now!)

He did have a strange 5-6 day string of very difficult bedtimes a couple of weeks ago. I honestly have no idea why. He started crying SO hard when we put him to bed; it was terrible. After a few days though, he went back to normal and seems perfectly happy at bedtime most days.

Awareness

One of the biggest changes I’ve seen in James this month is his awareness. He seems to be recognizing patterns and anticipating what will happen next. For example, he gets super excited when I put him in his stroller to go for a walk. He also gets a huge grin on his face when we start getting ready for bath time – one of his all-time favorite activities. I actually wonder if this greater awareness is what caused his temporary bedtime rebellion – he would start crying as soon as the bedtime routine started. Regardless, it is so fun to see this mental leap.

I honestly can’t believe that our little buddy is almost half a year old! Six months seems like such a milestone to me and I just wish time would slow down. I can only imagine what the next month will bring, but I’m trying not to look ahead too much, to focus on savoring these sweet days one at a time as they come.

Do you have children? If so, what is something new they’re doing this month?

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Top Five in the First Five Months

February 27, 2017 4 Comments

It hardly seems possible, but little James turns five months old today. (Five month update coming soon!) I still clearly remember being pregnant and trying to sift through the ridiculously long lists of things you “need” before bringing baby home, so I thought I’d talk about the top five baby items that have stood out so far for us in these first few months.

These are certainly not the items I would have predicted, but they have been the best for us. I am by no means an expert and of course each baby has his or her own preferences.

Note: I did not include the floor bed, which has absolutely been a favorite, as I discussed it in detail here.

Thick Blankets

Everything I read when I was pregnant emphasized that you could never have enough light swaddle blankets, especially these Aiden and Anais ones. I don’t know why, but I feel like we barely use these. Sure, we tuck one around James in the stroller, but I seem to have about five times as many light blankets as I need.

We have far fewer thick blankets, but use them much more. These are the ones we lay James on when he’s playing. This may be because we have hard wood floors, but we often double up so he doesn’t bang his head when he rolls over. My very favorite is the one that my friend and former boss, Lisa, made me. It is soft and thick and was especially perfect when James was learning to hold his head up and often lost control and hit it on the floor. There were no head bumps or tears when he was on this blanket.

Independent Black and White Books

I love to read, and absolutely love reading to James. It is one of my favorite things. When he was a newborn, I would lie next to him on the floor and read to him. He now sits and my lap as we read.

As much as I love reading books with James, I really appreciate the books that he can look at independently.

Two of these we’ve particularly loved are the Black & White board book and Art for Baby. The Black and White board book unfolds like an accordion so that the baby can look at the images independently. James LOVED this as a newborn. He would lay and stare at the images for the longest time. It was the first thing I saw him really concentrate on.

We didn’t have the Art for Baby book until he was a little older, but he still loves that one now at five months. It features black and white images from different well known artists. It is much larger than most board books and quite sturdy so that it’s easy to stand it up opened to a certain page to allow your baby to look at it on his own.

Mirror

This was a relatively inexpensive item that I can see us using well into toddlerhood and beyond. It is probably my number one favorite baby item – and we almost didn’t get it! While I always loved the idea of having a mirror in James’s room, I got a little overwhelmed trying to figure out what type to get and how to mount it to the wall.

I was concerned about the safety of having a glass mirror in his room, since he could potentially bang toys on it and break the glass when he gets older. (I wouldn’t have worried about this if he didn’t have a floor bed / freedom of movement or if we were going to put it in a playroom rather than his room.) On the other hand, many reviews of acrylic / unbreakable mirrors complained about distorted images.

In the end, we ordered an acrylic mirror from Home Depot (our Home Depot didn’t have them in the store, but they do have them online). I couldn’t be happier with it! Is the image perfect? No. Does James stare into it and smile and gaze with fascination? Yes! He does this every single day.

He has been transfixed by it since we first showed it to him as a newborn. If you look into the mirror from across the room, the reflection does look slightly distorted, but from his close up vantage point, it looks great.

Skwish

This is the only toy to make the list – James loves it! He has been given so many beautiful rattles and toys, but this one definitely stands out as his favorite. My mom gave it to him for Christmas because she remembered it as one of my little brother’s very favorites when he was a baby. It has not disappointed!

This was one of the first toys James could reliably grasp and hold onto. He also loves putting the knobs in his mouth. We have the one with colored knobs, but there is also an unpainted natural wood option.

Boppy Infant Lounger

This was something we added to our wish list just for fun, but it turned out to be so helpful in the first couple of months. While we mostly put him down on a blanket when he was awake to allow freedom of movement, he did sometimes seem to enjoy the change of perspective of being in the lounger. It let him get a better view of the Christmas lights or watch us as we were eating dinner.

As much as I have loved these items, even they have not really been necessary. I’ve been amazed by how engaged James is just looking around the room, watching us go about daily tasks. He has also been captivated by household items like the ceiling fan, a red and black plastic cup we got from a bbq restaurant, and, perhaps his favorite, a beautiful blue silk scarf given to me by a friend (thank you Lisa!).

In the end, we certainly have a few things we haven’t used (the bassinet…), but I’m so glad we didn’t rush out and get everything on the lists. Each baby is so different and you just never know what they will love!

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Preparing for Solid Food

February 17, 2017 4 Comments

Preparing for Solid Food

I can’t believe it’s almost time to start giving James solid food! While our pediatrician said it would be okay to start now, we’re following the WHO guidelines and waiting until six months (or at least close to then). I want to wait until he’s sitting up on his own anyway. That doesn’t mean we haven’t started preparing though! I’ve been doing several things to start familiarizing James with food and the eating process, and so far it’s been lots of fun.

Grocery Shopping

For a while, I was grocery shopping on my own, usually early on a weekend morning while James was asleep. This was certainly easier and quicker. However, I do think that involving children in grocery shopping and cooking can really encourage them to be adventurous eaters, so why not start now! I admit, I feel a bit spacey when I take him grocery shopping, mainly because I’m trying to get it done quickly, but I do try to talk to him a little about what we’re buying and show him some of the beautiful produce. I may get some crazy looks from other shoppers as I talk to little James about sweet potatoes, but that’s okay 🙂 I’d like to make it to the farmers market with him soon too, but that hasn’t happened yet.

Including him in Cooking

I love to cook and can’t wait for the days when James can help me in the kitchen! For now though, I try to include him by placing him on a blanket right outside the kitchen, in a way that he can see me. If he’s not busy doing something else, I’ll bring over the ingredients, especially fruits and vegetables, for him to look at. I also talk to him about the smells and sounds he may be noticing.

Including him at Meal Time

We do not always manage to eat dinner before James goes to bed, but at least a few nights of the week, we try to have a “family dinner,” where James sits on my lap. It’s so sweet to watch his eyes intently follow my fork to my mouth as I eat. He’s just started trying to grab my food off of my plate too (though he grabs everything, so I’m by no means assuming that he’s trying to eat it). This may be a less relaxing way to eat dinner, but it is definitely entertaining. When we don’t manage to have family dinners, I at least try to eat a snack while sitting with him at some point during the day. He always seems highly interested.

I have no idea if any of this makes a difference, but I enjoy it and see no reason not to include him in daily life as much as possible. It seems to me like maybe eating will be more fun and make more sense when the time comes if he’s already somewhat familiar with how it works. I would also love to find some beautiful photos of food to give him, or a book about food with great pictures, but haven’t done that yet.

Does anyone have any tips on including babies / children in meal time and preparation?

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Thoughts on a Floor Bed

February 14, 2017 No Comments

I have pretty much zero talent with design. I am simply not a visual person. However, I very much believe in the impact of a well-designed environment, on adults and children alike. I certainly saw this when teaching in a Montessori classroom, where simple tweaks in the organization and flow of the room could alter behaviors and classroom dynamics. Thus, I was excited to design the little buddy’s room when I was pregnant. I read many blog posts and articles about Montessori baby rooms, and couldn’t wait to put it into practice. One thing I was the most excited, curious, and anxious about was the floor bed (a simple bed or mattress on the floor, rather than a crib). I loved this idea, but wasn’t sure how well it would work in real life.

While I planned to use a floor bed, I had read that new babies liked to be in more confined spaces. I also wanted to keep James close for the first few months, so we chose a lovely bassinet, gifted to us by my parents. We set up James’s floor bed in his room, and put the bassinet in our room by our bed. I chose one of the larger bassinets, with hopes that he could stay in there longer, until he was ready for his floor bed.

Things did not go as planned (shocking, I know). When we brought James home from the hospital, he slept terribly the first few nights. I put him in the bassinet awake; I put him in asleep; every time resulted in crying within a few minutes. I thought he just had his days and nights reversed, as happens with many newborns. One night, when he started crying, I took him into his room, figuring that at least this way, my husband and I could take turns sleeping. There was no reason we should both be up all night. This was what led me to first put him in his floor bed as a newborn.

It was an instant change! He still of course woke often to eat, but he slept for hours at a time, for the first time since we’d brought him home. No more constant wake-ups and tears! I couldn’t believe it. I’m still not sure what he so strongly preferred about his floor bed versus his bassinet, but he certainly made his opinion clear. Perhaps the mattress was more comfortable, perhaps he liked being closer to the ground, perhaps he could see me better and felt safer. I have no idea. I feel so lucky though that we had that option available, or who knows how long it would have taken him to accept sleeping in the bassinet.

Another benefit has been the ease of comforting him when he has trouble to fall asleep. It is so easy to lie next to him and put a hand on his belly (or back, now that he rolls over), without having to pick him up. I think this has helped him learn to fall asleep independently (though this is still a work in progress). I imagine this would be far more difficult in a bassinet or crib. Also, since he has been sleeping in his own room from the start, we won’t have to deal with the struggle of transitioning him out of our room when he is older and more aware. As he goes to bed around seven o’clock, we don’t go to bed with him, so he is already used to going to bed in there on his own.

The only downside has been that, due to the SIDS prevention recommendations of sleeping in the same room as the baby for the first six months, either my husband or I sleep next to him on the floor on a camping mattress. This is obviously not ideal, but it’s only for a few more weeks. We considered moving his mattress into our room, but didn’t want to create a future challenge of transitioning him to his own room later.

So far, our experience with the floor bed has been overwhelmingly positive. I’m curious to see if this remains true as he gets older. James is fighting every day to become more mobile. His crawling attempts right now look more like swimming, with only his belly on the floor, limbs flailing, but I know it won’t be long until he’s moving about freely. I very much hope that he adjusts well once he’s mobile and that the floor bed continues to work so well for our family. We shall see!

Day in the Life

Four Months – A Day in the Life

February 10, 2017 2 Comments

James is just over four months old. The past nineteen weeks have been both a blur and an eternity. While some days are hard (for instance, Tuesday, when he barely napped), this is one of those rare times in life when I’m able to recognize, right in the thick of it, that these are the “good old days,” the ones I’ll look back on when I’m old and remember with aching fondness. I remind myself of this often. Yet despite trying to appreciate each day, I’m already finding it hard to remember the details of the early days…back when James was “little,” ha. I’m hoping that periodically recording a “day in the life,” just a normal, mundane day, will help me remember once the fog of sleeplessness has lifted and these sweet days have slipped away.

As is currently typical for him, James woke up once in the middle of the night (2:40 AM) and once in the early morning (5:07 AM). I always get up after this early morning wakeup while he sleeps a little longer. Thankfully, this has shifted from the four o’clock hour to the five o’clock hour recently. I find I have a much better day if I have a little time to myself (and a lot of coffee), before being “Mom”. I ate breakfast and watched an episode of the West Wing – it was a good one.

He continued dozing and quietly entertaining himself for quite a while, so I completed this 40 minute strength workout before going to get him. He was still calmly playing when I went in, but was clearly wide awake at this point. Going in to get him in the morning is one of my favorite things. He always looks at me blankly for a couple of seconds before registering that it’s me and giving me a big smile. I pick him up and cuddle with him for a few minutes in the glider. He is such a busy baby, always on the move, and doesn’t like to be held for long unless he’s just woken up, or is getting sleepy, so I cherish these times. I changed his diaper, got him dressed, and he played for a little while in front of his mirror, looking at himself and his mobile, and practicing rolling, while I straightened up his room.

We then went in to have cuddle time with his Dad before he went to work – another one of my favorite parts of the day. We do this most mornings and it is so nice to have some time all together before the day gets going. Before too long, the little guy was getting restless, so I fed him, changed his diaper again, and he had some more play time in front of the mirror (this time with his crocheted rattle), before going down for his first nap at 8:45. He fell asleep independently (something he’s been working on) within five minutes.

While he napped, I unloaded the dishwasher, showered, and got dressed for the day. His naps have been a bit unpredictable since he started rolling. He always wakes up after thirty-five minutes, but sometimes goes back to sleep for two hours or so. Once it was clear he had fallen back asleep, I made another cup of coffee (obsessed with the Nespresso I got for Christmas) and got to work on this post.

At 10:15, I turned off the white noise app that helps James sleep. I don’t usually do this, but I wanted to take him to story time at the library later, and knew if he kept sleeping, he’d be ready for his next nap right when it was time to leave. He woke up within a couple of minutes and I went and snuggled with him and fed him.

After feeding him and changing his diaper, we went for a walk. We normally do this in the afternoon, but it was ridiculously nice and sunny out. When we got home, James had some play time. We usually move to a new room in the house for each different play time, just to mix up the environment a bit. This time, he was in front of a window in my room. I like to give him a chance to play independently at the start of each play time. I set him up in front of a mirror or window and put one or two toys, or a book propped open to look at, nearby. He looks out the window, practices rolling, tries desperately to crawl, and reaches for the toys. I either sit by him while he does this or do some type of house work in the same room. He eventually asks for attention, or gets frustrated by his crawling attempts, and then we play together. I sing him songs, which he loves lately, read him books, help him grab a toy, or talk to him about what we see out the window. After singing lots of songs, he eventually got sleepy eyes, and went down for another nap at around 12:30. He needed a little help falling asleep this time, so I rubbed his back, avoiding eye contact so as not to stimulate him. His afternoon naps are usually short (35 minutes…on the dot), so this timing worked out perfectly for making it to story time at the library…woohoo! While he slept, I made a smoothie and got everything ready to go.

He woke up just in time and we went to a nearby library that has a story time for babies under one year old. They sing songs and read a short book and then the librarian puts out toys and blows bubbles. James sits in my lap, stunned, looking around at the other babies (“I’m not the only one!” I imagine him thinking.) I go mostly for selfish reasons, to get a chance to talk to other moms, but I do think he gets something out of seeing other babies sit and crawl and walk. He fell asleep in the car on the way home…and I drove around for thirty minutes to let him get a decent nap. He used to keep sleeping if I brought him in from the car, but this is no longer the case. The day before, he fell asleep for five minutes and was utterly convinced that counted as his nap. I was listening to an audio book (The Happiness Project, one of my favorites) so I did not mind the extra time in the car.

When we got home, I fed him and changed his diaper again and then we had some more play time. Nick got home a little while later and joined us. James started getting a little grumpy, so we started bath time, which always cheers him up. I then fed him and Nick did the bedtime routine, which we take turns with. For bedtime, we give him a massage with lavender lotion, read him a book, sing him a song, and place him in his bed. Sometimes he goes to sleep on his own and sometimes he cries, in which case one of us stays with him and pats his back / rubs his tummy until he is calm or asleep.

It was a completely ordinary, extraordinary day.

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The Nursery – AKA, My Favorite Room in the House

September 20, 2016 2 Comments

When I found out I was pregnant, we were living in a one bedroom apartment and knew we would move before the baby was born. We decided to buy a house and the process took months. While the search was sometimes exhausting and frustrating, it did give me plenty of time to research the type of nursery I wanted to have. Since I couldn’t do any real nesting to speak of, I poured all of that pent up energy into researching Montessori infant rooms. When we finally moved into our house when I was just over 30 weeks pregnant, setting up the nursery was fairly simple.

Right now, the room has four basic areas: sleeping, playing, diaper changing, and nursing.

I’ll start with the one that I spent the most time researching: sleeping. I knew I was interested in a floor bed, especially after seeing them work wonderfully in the infant room at the school where I teach. I was unsure of the actual logistics of this though, particularly making sure that it was safe. I researched floor beds and mattresses, but honestly didn’t find a whole lot of specifics, mainly just accounts of how a floor bed worked or didn’t work for different families. I did read somewhere that Ikea had a thin mattress lower to the ground than most, and that is what we decided to go with. We wanted a twin mattress that would give him more room to move and that would grow with him. The Ikea mattress (I believe it was this one: Minnesund) seemed firm and was under 4 inches high, so that when he does eventually roll off, he won’t have too far to fall. We also placed a rug by the bed to soften the landing. While a bed frame is totally unnecessary, I fell in love with this one from Etsy. When we assembled it, there was a small gap between the mattress and the frame, so we decided to wait until he’s a bit older to use the frame for safety reasons. I’m not too upset about this though since, as it’s a twin sized bed, he will still get plenty of use out of it into the toddler years. The flag bunting hanging over his mattress came with the bed frame. One other note, we could not find sheets that fit the low mattress tightly enough for an infant, but used sheet suspenders (I believe these) to pull the sheets nice and tight. We plan to start him out in a bassinet in our room, but to transition him to the floor bed for naps fairly quickly so he can begin getting used to his space.

For the “playing area”, we hung an acrylic, shatter-proof mirror on the wall (pictured above with the bed). We purchased it from Home Depot. They have all different sizes and it was very easy to hang. It is very lightweight, so there is no fear of it falling and hitting the baby. We hung the black and white mobile above the mirror so that he can watch the reflection of the movement for added interest. We were so fortunate and a wonderful Montessorian here in Austin gave us the beautiful mobile. My mom is also making a more traditional Munari mobile, which I’m so happy about, as I love the Montessori mobiles, but am decidedly un-crafty myself. I can’t wait to see him interact with both the mobile and the mirror! Along the lines of play, we also have a low shelf from Ikea with a few books, toys, and photos on it. The black and white rattle was part of a lovely giftset of Montessori baby toys I received and the pictures are photos my husband has taken.

For the changing station, I knew I wanted to have this on the floor for a few reasons. Since I know it won’t be long before he is mobile and crawling around the room on his own, I wanted to minimize furniture that may not be safe later on. I also plan to do stand-up diapering as soon as he can stand holding onto something, so did not want to invest in a piece of furniture we would use for such a short time.

Lastly, nursing: I was not planning to purchase a glider / rocking chair for nursing, but a wonderful family at the school where I teach gifted us this one and I could not be happier about it! It is the most comfortable chair and I already sit in it all of the time to read. Once the baby starts to crawl, we will likely need to move it to a different room so that he doesn’t hurt his fingers under the rockers, but for now, it is a great comfortable spot in the room where I’m sure we will spend lots of time over the next few months.

I’m sure this room will go through many iterations as we observe the baby in it and as his needs change. Right now I just can’t wait until he’s here to test it out!

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The Beginning

September 16, 2016 4 Comments

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Two weeks ago, I left my job (for a while, not forever) and am now sitting at home in an empty baby nursery waiting. Waiting for my first baby to make his appearance and looking around the room wondering what else should be done.

I am a Montessori teacher, AMS certified for children 3-6. I also attended a wonderful Montessori school from preschool through middle school. My mom and sister are Montessori teachers as well. Now that I’m a little over 39 weeks pregnant, I am thinking a lot about how to apply the Montessori method with our little one when he arrives. This blog will chronicle my attempts to transfer the philosophy I love and believe in to raising our son.

In my last few weeks of teaching, a few of the parents commented that I must be so prepared after working with so many young children. Yes and no…I feel very prepared for a three or four year old, not so much for an infant. I know that the philosophy is the same, but in terms of specifics, I have a lot to learn. My hope is that I can share what I learn along the way, while gaining advice from others. I also plan to post copious amounts of baby pictures and general life updates, because I know I won’t be able to help myself.

Why the “ish”?

At the heart of Montessori is of course observation and experimentation and that is how I plan to approach this next step in my life. I assume that this will often be in line with traditional Montessori ways…and sometimes not. I’m definitely going into this journey with an open mind, rather than following a set formula for how to raise a child “the Montessori way”. I will always do what I think and believe is best for our family, and will share our struggles along the way.

Thank you for joining me and welcome!

Up next…the nursery, Take 1